In this message, “Before We Blame The Kids,” we explore Psalm 127:3–5 and the powerful reminder that children are a heritage from the Lord. Parenting is not just about raising children — it is about discipling future adults and helping them gradually transition from our authority to God’s authority. This sermon challenges parents, guardians, and leaders to do a relationship audit and ask: What is driving the way I parent? Fear? Control? Guilt? Pride? Regret? Desire? Or the wisdom and love of God? The quality of our lives is heavily connected to the quality of our relationships, and family is one of the most important places where God shapes us. Whether you are parenting infants, teenagers, young adults, or simply reflecting on your family dynamics, this message will help you move toward healthier, more God-led relationships. Scripture Reference: Psalm 127:3–5 NKJV “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them…” In this message, we discuss: The importance of a relationship audit Raising children vs. raising adults The seasons of parenting Fear-driven parenting How control often comes from fear Parenting through faith instead of guilt, pride, or regret Discipling your children toward God’s authority Subscribe for more messages from Thrive City Church and share this sermon with a parent, guardian, mentor, or leader who needs encouragement today. #ThriveCityChurch #BeforeWeBlameTheKids #ChristianParenting #FaithAndFamily #ParentingWithPurpose

Marriage was never meant to carry the weight of unsurrendered expectations. In “A Funeral For Your Expectations,” Pastor Greg & Saryta Colbert continue the Relationship Audit Series with a powerful message focused on marriage, relationships, forgiveness, and the expectations we place on the people we love. Through scripture and honest conversation, this message challenges us to examine the expectations, preferences, and assumptions that can quietly create frustration, disappointment, and division in marriage when they are not surrendered to God. “My soul, wait silently for God alone, For my expectation is from Him.” — Psalm 62:5 NKJV In this message: • Why expectations aren’t bad • Why every expectation needs to be examined • Unsanctified expectations & preferences • The danger of expensive forgiveness • How unhealthy expectations impact marriage • What it means to lower, sober, and reorder • Why surrender produces healthier relationships Key Scriptures: Psalm 62:5 Proverbs 10:28 Romans 8:1-4 1 Corinthians 7:12-13 1 Peter 3:1-2 John 12:24 If this message impacted you, make sure to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to stay connected with Thrive City Church. #RelationshipAudit #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #PastorGreg #PastorSaryta #ThriveCityAZ #Relationships #Faith #Forgiveness #ChurchOnline

Who Told You That? | Relationship Audit The quality of your life is heavily connected to the quality of your relationships. In this message, we take an honest, God-led look at relationships—especially marriage—and ask the question God asked in Genesis 3:11: “Who told you that?” Marriage was never designed to be driven by culture, comfort, comparison, or convenience. Biblical marriage is a covenant relationship that reflects Christ, reveals God’s character, and brings glory to Him in the earth. In this sermon, we unpack the true purpose of marriage and how God uses relationships to shape us, sanctify us, and align us with His purpose. In this message, you’ll learn: Why marriage is not primarily about you, but about glorifying God How a relationship audit can reveal health, patterns, fruit, and alignment Why marriage is designed to sanctify, not just satisfy The importance of honor, submission, and sacrificial love How marriage helps fulfill purpose Why companionship, pleasure, and partnership matter in God’s design Key Scriptures: Genesis 3:11 NIV Genesis 2:23–24 NKJV Matthew 6:33 ESV Ephesians 5:21 NLT Genesis 2:18 NKJV Whether you are married, single, dating, engaged, or healing from relational pain, this message will help you evaluate what you have believed, who you have been listening to, and how to align your relationships with God’s design. Subscribe for more messages from Thrive City Church and share this with someone who is ready to grow in healthier, God-honoring relationships. #WhoToldYouThat #MarriageGodsWay #ThriveCityChurch #ChristianRelationships #RelationshipAudit

You Got A Friend In Me 🤝 | Relationship Audit Series Not every relationship in your life carries the same weight—and knowing the difference can change everything. In this message, our Lead Pastors, Greg Colbert and Saryta Colbert, continue the Relationship Audit Series with a powerful conversation on friendship, connection, and the people surrounding your life. “The quality of your life is heavily dependent upon the quality of your relationships.” This message challenges us to honestly evaluate the relationships we carry and recognize the difference between: * Acquaintances * Associates * Assignment relationships * Allies 📖 “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” — Proverbs 18:24 ⸻ 🔍 In this message: * Why every relationship should not have the same level of access * The importance of healthy, God-centered friendships * How purpose and seasons affect relationships * What covenant-level friendships look like * Why healthier people attract healthier friendships ⸻ ❤️ Healthy Friendships Require: * Intentionality * Communication * Grace * Consistency * Forgiveness One of the most important questions asked in this message: “Am I becoming the kind of friend I keep asking God to send?” Because we attract healthier friendships when we become healthier friends. ⸻ 👍 Like the video 💬 Comment what stood out to you 📲 Share this with a friend 🔔 Subscribe for more messages from Thrive City Church Instagram: @thrivecityaz #RelationshipAudit #Friendship #YouGotAFriendInMe #Faith #ChristianRelationships #ThriveCity #Community #Purpose